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Well as for me I think it depends...if its someone Im in a serious committed relationship with I will tell. If its something that is here and there then they dont need to know my biz...
How do you like the Mirena? Is that like the IUD that the doc has to put inside you?
Yup thts it! I like it :)
It def has its moment whn ur body is adjusting but it wasn't bad. And I didn't experience any side effects. I'm just patiently waiting for whn I don't get a period at all lol.
If my girl is on birth control and does not tell me that would bother me. Why? Because if she is my girl I have already let her into my world. meaning I am not keeping anything from her. Therefore, I don't want her to keep anything from me. However on the flip side, if she is just electric company I do not need to know. Regardless, I am protecting myself at all times.
I can understand why it wud bother u if she didn't tell u tht she was on BC. It wud probably bother me too.
Yeah, if we are in a serious relationship I am going to take my time and scale the wall not open the door. In scaling the wall I want to find everything because I am going to show my woman everything. That lets her know that I trust her above anything else with my most prized posession, my heart.
Trust is very hard to earn & come by b/c ppl r human at the end of it all.
But its good tht u like to take ur time to knw and understand the woman tht u choose to be with.
I am slow to trust people. However once I do, that person is in the circle.:o) I know people are human. I just want people to think about how their decisions and actions effect someone other than themselves. You know? I believe slow love is the best Love in every sense. That is just me.
But seriously, I wouldn't feel bad at all if the girl is in birth control and didn't tell me. It's her body and I think it's a good thing she's protecting herself from an unwanted pregnancy. Now, the only thing I won't tolerate is if I'm in a serious relationship with a girl and she doesn't tell me. Not because I want to have sex without condoms or anything like that, is just that something happened to a friend of mine and his ex-girlfriend that got me frustrated. You see, my friend wanted a baby. His ex- said she wanted a baby too. They tried to have a baby for a long time. He even went to doctors because he thought he was the problem. Then one day, he received a call from a doctor saying his ex- needs to get some shots. The doctor explained him that the shots are for the treatment of birth control she was receiving for YEARS!!! He wanted to kill her. The point is, no matter how good you are hiding something from someone you should not, sooner or later that person will find out. And I'm afraid something like that happens to me.
Now, about affecting the use of condoms, that depends. If I'm in a serious relationship and we DON'T cheat on each other and we both are clean, no std, regular screening, etcs, then I see no problem of having sex without it. But, since I believe most people people at one point (or many points) in their life cheat (including me), I can't think, "I'm a good guy a no girl will cheat on me." In my mind all girls are cheaters, so I have to protect myself...always. Sad, isn't it?
btw, if the girl is for nothing serious, I don't care if she's on birth control, drugs, psychiatric treatment, high, weed, hungry, poor, rich, stupid, intelligent, suicidal or something like that. I always use condom regardless.
I feel u Juan. I trust a man to be human enough to make mistakes b/c no one is perfect like u said.
I thnk tht your BC choice depends on how comfortable u r with certain things.
For example, if u knw u can take a BC pill thn thr r options out thr.
Then u have Nuvo Ring, but to me thts to much work (lol).
Thr is also the Mirena which I'm using & I don't have any issues w/it but everyone is diff :)
Yeah, its not safe anymore even if ur in a "committed" relationship.
Okay I thought about how to answer the question without sounding ignorant...but I do not believe in taking birth control, however I do use condoms. I grew up believing that man made medicines is what is slowly killing us now and so I do not take birth control.
My mother passed away from AIDS 14 yrs ago and she got it from her husband (whole other story) and so I refuse to use the pull out method or anything resembling that. I really have know that I know I can trust a man well enough to let him experience my warm center. But it's condoms all the way for me.
I see where you are coming from regarding the entire man made medicine statement is killing us. You were about to get deep weren't you!!:o) I hear you Lovely One.
Oh yes, I like the new photo. And as far as your warm center goes, I am quite sure that is Lovely as well!!!!!!!!HEHE I'm gone!!
I was about to, but I pulled back....lol
Thank you, I figured it was time for a change.
You are welcome!! Change/variety is the spice of life. Do you like spicy food? I do. That is just the Southern country boy in me.:o) Seriously, you are very photogenic, very good picture.
And thank you
Not disclosing this in a real relationship would end it for me. I'm a full disclosure type of guy. Especially with side women. Lying or withholding ALWAYS complicates matters. Easier to put all the facts out there.
Some females don't disclose different things for different reasons. Some being that most guys may not approve of their girlfriend being on other birth control methods other than condoms b/c they take it as an insult.
I think that ppl should be upfront, but at the same time, it depends on what it is exactly.
To us it sounded weird and I probably would have felt upset about it if I was actually on Yaz.