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Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

HeadMistress — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 17:42:46 -0000

Yeah, I'm with SassyScorpio...I don't f*ck with birth control pills, patches or none of that shyt...never have, never will...I especially give the side eye to that Seasonique bullshit. yeah ok, 4 periods a year sounds great but if God scheduled me for 12 then damnit I'ma have to suck it up and just roll with that...

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 08:05:48 -0000

Thnk u for sending info on the risks of Yaz. I knw its not funny but my homegirl and I joked about a recent commercial we saw for Yaz where they was talking about how the FDA wants them to clear up some inaccurate info tht they had given in a previous commercial.
To us it sounded weird and I probably would have felt upset about it if I was actually on Yaz.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Cynthia111 — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 07:35:41 -0000

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Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:43:31 -0000

I don't think you're trippin. But I don't think it would be deceitful if she didn't decide to tell you off the jump. If ya'll are using condoms and she wants to further protect herself against pregnancy just in case the condom breaks then that is a good choice on her part.

Some females don't disclose different things for different reasons. Some being that most guys may not approve of their girlfriend being on other birth control methods other than condoms b/c they take it as an insult.

I think that ppl should be upfront, but at the same time, it depends on what it is exactly.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

216skillz — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 07:08:46 -0000

So am I the only one trippin here? The deceit involved with not disclosing the use of birth control would make me think she has ulterior motives. If whenever we doin what we do, we use condoms why is she on birth control and not tellin me?

Not disclosing this in a real relationship would end it for me. I'm a full disclosure type of guy. Especially with side women. Lying or withholding ALWAYS complicates matters. Easier to put all the facts out there.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Blacksand — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 12:20:05 -0000

I am curious. Please expound upon what you were saying before you decided to reserve comment?

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

SassyScorpio — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 11:44:19 -0000

I like spicy but not too spicy.

And thank you

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Blacksand — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 11:15:32 -0000

Don't hold back, I want it all...lol Girl, speak your mind!! I've been listening to the Isley Brothers this morning.HEHE

You are welcome!! Change/variety is the spice of life. Do you like spicy food? I do. That is just the Southern country boy in me.:o) Seriously, you are very photogenic, very good picture.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

SassyScorpio — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 10:55:43 -0000

Hey Black,

I was about to, but I pulled back....lol

Thank you, I figured it was time for a change.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Blacksand — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 10:48:02 -0000

Good morning SassyScorpio, I am sorry to hear that your mother passed 14yrs ago.

I see where you are coming from regarding the entire man made medicine statement is killing us. You were about to get deep weren't you!!:o) I hear you Lovely One.

Oh yes, I like the new photo. And as far as your warm center goes, I am quite sure that is Lovely as well!!!!!!!!HEHE I'm gone!!

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Blacksand — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 10:39:42 -0000

Good morning beautiful, that is what I have been told. :o) I thought you would agree me.HEHE

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

SassyScorpio — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 10:07:51 -0000

Heeey PCL,

Okay I thought about how to answer the question without sounding ignorant...but I do not believe in taking birth control, however I do use condoms. I grew up believing that man made medicines is what is slowly killing us now and so I do not take birth control.

My mother passed away from AIDS 14 yrs ago and she got it from her husband (whole other story) and so I refuse to use the pull out method or anything resembling that. I really have know that I know I can trust a man well enough to let him experience my warm center. But it's condoms all the way for me.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 19:24:02 -0000

And its nothing wrong with being "just u" :)

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 19:23:10 -0000

And its nothing wrong with being "just u" :)

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 19:22:15 -0000

At first I didn't mind the pill but thn I HATED taking thm too!...lol.

Yeah, its not safe anymore even if ur in a "committed" relationship.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 19:21:03 -0000

Why 2 months later? Wht happens thn :)

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

popwife.com — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:22:10 -0000

It's best to tell the person. Or else you run the risk of having an unpleasant conversation about 2 months later.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Guest — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 15:21:54 -0000

I HATE HATE HATE TAKING PILLS MY DOC HAD ME ON BIRTH CONTROL 3 YEARS AGO I ONLY TOOK 2 PILLS lol. I'VE NEVER BEEN PREGNANT THANK GOD AND I DONT PLAY ABOUT HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX. I DID IT FOR A FEW MONTHS WITH 1 GUY THAT I DEALT W/FOR 6 YEARS. U TALKING ABOUT SCARED SHITLESS GOING TO GET A EXAM SMDH... IT JUST ISNT MY THING I PERSONALLY KNOW PEOPLE WHOM HAVE BEEN GIVING STDs & HIV BY MEN & WOMEN THEY'VE BEEN W/FOR A LONG TIME EVEN HUSBAND & WIVES. THE CELIBACY BLUES ARE KICKING MY BEHIND RIGHT NOW lol ITS THE SAFEST ROUTE TO GO THOUGH...

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Blacksand — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 09:34:28 -0000

Indeed, I am not trying to experience that.

I am slow to trust people. However once I do, that person is in the circle.:o) I know people are human. I just want people to think about how their decisions and actions effect someone other than themselves. You know? I believe slow love is the best Love in every sense. That is just me.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 08:08:02 -0000

I was depo too & I didn't like it.
I thnk tht your BC choice depends on how comfortable u r with certain things.
For example, if u knw u can take a BC pill thn thr r options out thr.
Then u have Nuvo Ring, but to me thts to much work (lol).
Thr is also the Mirena which I'm using & I don't have any issues w/it but everyone is diff :)

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

DMarie — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 22:28:33 -0000

I have been in a committed relationship for 3 years and I tried birth control (Depo) but I stopped the shots b/c they took a toll on my body. I didn't gain weight but I had constant headaches and periods. If I wasn't in a relationship then no I would not tell them if I was on BC that would just be my secret. I am looking to get back on birth control any suggestions Ness?

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 19:18:06 -0000

Who wouldn't want to feel tht warmth, but thr is a different type of warmth tht supersedes tht good warmth & thts being in the doctors office taking an hiv test & thnking about the times u "trusted" someone lol (not funny) :)
Trust is very hard to earn & come by b/c ppl r human at the end of it all.
But its good tht u like to take ur time to knw and understand the woman tht u choose to be with.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Ness — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 19:16:03 -0000

Wow thts crzy wht happened to ur friend. Its almost like she was lying to him the whole time b/c she made him believe she wanted the same thng he wanted. And she was on the depo shot :) Even if she got off of it to try it wud have taken her a few months to get the shot out of system.

I feel u Juan. I trust a man to be human enough to make mistakes b/c no one is perfect like u said.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Blacksand — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 14:51:59 -0000

The number of times I have done that in the past can be counted on one hand. Yes, I want to feel that heat right before I enter and yes I want to feel her warmth all around me gripping me, pulling me in further but I hasten because that feeling is incomparable to anything else.

Yeah, if we are in a serious relationship I am going to take my time and scale the wall not open the door. In scaling the wall I want to find everything because I am going to show my woman everything. That lets her know that I trust her above anything else with my most prized posession, my heart.

Re: Birth Control: Is That Something You Disclose?

Juan — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 14:51:12 -0000

well...If I wanted to pregnant a hot woman who doesn't love me, so I can have an excuse to see her everyday (you know, mother of my son), but then I find out that she's in birth control, I will be very angry and sad. My dream of getting pregnant at least one hot girl will perish lol.

But seriously, I wouldn't feel bad at all if the girl is in birth control and didn't tell me. It's her body and I think it's a good thing she's protecting herself from an unwanted pregnancy. Now, the only thing I won't tolerate is if I'm in a serious relationship with a girl and she doesn't tell me. Not because I want to have sex without condoms or anything like that, is just that something happened to a friend of mine and his ex-girlfriend that got me frustrated. You see, my friend wanted a baby. His ex- said she wanted a baby too. They tried to have a baby for a long time. He even went to doctors because he thought he was the problem. Then one day, he received a call from a doctor saying his ex- needs to get some shots. The doctor explained him that the shots are for the treatment of birth control she was receiving for YEARS!!! He wanted to kill her. The point is, no matter how good you are hiding something from someone you should not, sooner or later that person will find out. And I'm afraid something like that happens to me.

Now, about affecting the use of condoms, that depends. If I'm in a serious relationship and we DON'T cheat on each other and we both are clean, no std, regular screening, etcs, then I see no problem of having sex without it. But, since I believe most people people at one point (or many points) in their life cheat (including me), I can't think, "I'm a good guy a no girl will cheat on me." In my mind all girls are cheaters, so I have to protect myself...always. Sad, isn't it?

btw, if the girl is for nothing serious, I don't care if she's on birth control, drugs, psychiatric treatment, high, weed, hungry, poor, rich, stupid, intelligent, suicidal or something like that. I always use condom regardless.