They'll just do wrong in a "smarter" way...I use 'smarter' very loosely cause no one is ever really smart about it
If it's in someone's character to cheat nothing is gonna stop them, especially not a few questions or even a more "hands on" approach by their partner
Ness
· 2 months ago
True...they thnk they're being smart about it but in fact they're telling on themselves lol. Especially men lmao!
But a good example whn I was dating this guy. I told him I was going to work. Which was true. He knew whr I worked and wht time I got off so as it got closer for me to leave work I couldn't wait to leave. As I was grabbing my bag, my phone rang and it was dude. He said he was outside waiting for me. He never came to get me frm work unless I asked him to. Plus I never thght he would show up w/o giving me a heads up. Now if I wud have been doing dirt (ie. Not going to work and linking up w/ a guy or having another guy meet me after work then thngs would have been different lol).
Princess0889
· 2 months ago
Like @HeadMistress said basically said nothing is going to stop anyone from cheating when they want to.
But what I can say is that I personally don't like the whole 20 Questions games with my SO or anyone for that matter. I feel like we are grown and if it's important to tell then I will otherwise I don't think I should be sharing every moment of my life/day with anyone. I think if you trust whom ever you are with there is no real need to question their every move.
My thing is we are together but if you feel like you wanna cheat either tell me the problem or leave I don't have the time to sit here and worry about what you do every day.
Ness
· 2 months ago
I don't think anyone has time or patience for the 20 questions. I'm sure most of us went thru it w/ our guardians and will be quick to throw out "I'm a grown ass woman or man" to anyone trying to question our whereabouts lol.
BrownEyedPanther
· 2 months ago
I disagree.
If you're dating someone who needs to be kept in line then you're dating the wrong person. People will do what they want to do, regardless of what you want them to do.
I've never needed to keep tabs on any man I've dated. That isn't my style. That in no way means those men have opted to cheat on me. While they understood that was an option they had, as anyone has that option, they also understood the consequence of that action, which is our relationship would end.
Having to keep tabs or be hands on with someone means you don't trust them. If you don't trust them then you may as well find someone you do trust.
Ness
· 2 months ago
True...but some ppl thnk it works. Thnk about all they guys who try to keep tabs on their mates lol. It might drive some ppl away and some might thnk its an act of "love".
I think tht ppl r gonna cheat if they want to but I knw tht women don't cheat just b/c d*ck is available. "We" cheat b/c somethng is lacking. But thts neither here nor there lol. It might be more preventative frm a male perspective lol.
Blacksand
· 2 months ago
You cannot stop anyone from cheating. All you can do is treat them the best way you know how and let the chips fall where they may. What will be, will be. That is my two cents.
Ness
· 2 months ago
True u can't stop ppl frm doing wht they want to do. I just thght tht maybe it could be prevented just a little bit lol.
Blacksand
· 2 months ago
Nope, you sure can't. That is why having a serious relationship is scary and at times uncomfortable. You can prevent some things, not all the things. That is the way Love goes.
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If it's in someone's character to cheat nothing is gonna stop them, especially not a few questions or even a more "hands on" approach by their partner
But a good example whn I was dating this guy. I told him I was going to work. Which was true. He knew whr I worked and wht time I got off so as it got closer for me to leave work I couldn't wait to leave. As I was grabbing my bag, my phone rang and it was dude. He said he was outside waiting for me. He never came to get me frm work unless I asked him to. Plus I never thght he would show up w/o giving me a heads up.
Now if I wud have been doing dirt (ie. Not going to work and linking up w/ a guy or having another guy meet me after work then thngs would have been different lol).
But what I can say is that I personally don't like the whole 20 Questions games with my SO or anyone for that matter. I feel like we are grown and if it's important to tell then I will otherwise I don't think I should be sharing every moment of my life/day with anyone. I think if you trust whom ever you are with there is no real need to question their every move.
My thing is we are together but if you feel like you wanna cheat either tell me the problem or leave I don't have the time to sit here and worry about what you do every day.
If you're dating someone who needs to be kept in line then you're dating the wrong person. People will do what they want to do, regardless of what you want them to do.
I've never needed to keep tabs on any man I've dated. That isn't my style. That in no way means those men have opted to cheat on me. While they understood that was an option they had, as anyone has that option, they also understood the consequence of that action, which is our relationship would end.
Having to keep tabs or be hands on with someone means you don't trust them. If you don't trust them then you may as well find someone you do trust.
I think tht ppl r gonna cheat if they want to but I knw tht women don't cheat just b/c d*ck is available. "We" cheat b/c somethng is lacking. But thts neither here nor there lol. It might be more preventative frm a male perspective lol.
I just thght tht maybe it could be prevented just a little bit lol.